Things to Do on a Snow Day That Aren’t Calling Your Ex
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Baby, it’s cold outside ... And it’s snowing like the apocalypse out there! It looks like it’s going to be a long day of hanging out inside, snuggling up under that down blanket your mom bought you for Christmas, and staving off ever-engulfing feelings of loneliness.
What’s that, you say? Loneliness?
Yes, a snow day might be the most wonderful things to ever happen: school is canceled, calories don’t count, and your obligations are on the backburner, but that also leaves you alone with your thoughts.
When we’re stir-crazy, we often make choices that are not ideal. For instance, calling your ex boyfriend or girlfriend. It’s so tempting when you feel like you’re inside of a snowglobe, far away from the repercussions of your actions. What harm could calling your ex possibly do?
Sure, having someone to cuddle with on a snow day sounds nice right now, but let’s not forget what a toxic relationship you had. Your ex is an ex for a reason.
Put the phone down, back away, and do these 7 things instead of calling your ex.
Courtesy of Giphy1/8Indulge until the cows come home (or it stops blizzarding)
I think we can all agree that chocolate is and will forever be superior to an ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
Please tell me you didn’t forget to stock up on goodies before this snow started. I’m going to assume you didn’t wake up this morning and curse the candy-gods for letting you forget to buy that king-sized Snickers.
If you did, go check your kitchen. I’m about 85% sure your mom has snacks hidden somewhere. Anything is better than calling your ex. Stuff your face. It’s a snow day. Live your life.
2/8Take a bath
Baths have a restorative power unlike any other. Today is a snow day. It is FREEZING outside. Take a warm bath to sooth your wandering mind. Set up a relaxing spa playlist on Spotify, light some candles, and climb in there.
Add lemon balm to your bath if you’re feeling particularly anxious. It is a natural antidote to anxiety and is known for its calming effects.
While you’re soaking, practice some deep breathing. According to Mind Body Green, deep breathing can help release endorphins, your body’s natural “happy” chemicals. When you’re feeling lonely, you can use that extra boost to help you see past your mood.
You can even bring that chocolate into the bathroom and sit it next to the tub. Nothing is off-limits (except calling your ex).
Courtesy of Giphy3/8Get crazy cozy
First, take your phone and plug it in on the other side of your bedroom. Make it impossible to pick up without going across the room to retrieve it. Next, get every down blanket you can find and create a cave of warmth and happiness on your bed. Finally, climb into the cuddle cave and DO NOT CALL YOUR EX.
You will be a warm cinnamon bun of delight and comfort. The blankets will help make you feel secure, pushing away that urge to ruin your life by involving Satan in your sacred snow day bliss.
Courtesy of Giphy4/8Cuddle Your Dog
Go get your dog, cat, hamster or whatever pet you own and bring him or her into your cuddle cave. Pets are better than any boyfriend or girlfriend. They are snuggly and adorable -- they even lick your face when you’re feeling down. Your pet will never break your heart. It’s OK if your pet is really a stuffed animal; stuffed animals are lovely too.
Where is your phone? It better still be across the room, plugged in. I’m serious.
Courtesy of Giphy5/8Call your most trusted friend or family member
Being pent up in your house all day long can make you a little crazy. It’s normal. You’re fine. A lot of that frantic energy comes from the very fact that you’re cooped up. As Time points out, humans aren’t meant to be locked inside all day long. It isn’t natural.
Since going outside in a blizzard is off the table, call someone you love instead. Call your best friend, your mom, your uncle or aunt. They are always going to be there for you. Even if the conversation is short, just having the reminder that you’re not alone can make a world of difference.
6/8Get totally lost in Netflix drama
Get your laptop or television set up to view your shows from the comfort of you luxury blanket cave. It’s time to hunker down and distract yourself. You can’t possibly think of your ex if you’re fully ingrained in the drama of fictional characters.
I’m sure some will advise you to stay away from a show that is heavy on the romance, but I think it’s just the opposite. Turning on a show full of good, enticing relationships should actually remind you how lucky you are to be away from your ex. Look at it as a juxtaposition: Your ex basically is the exact opposite of every hero in your show. That should make you NOT want to call him or her.
Not feeling television? Try a podcast instead!
7/8Enjoy a little self-love
A lot of this tension is stemming from sexual frustration. Maybe you're pining because your body needs some attention, and there is nothing wrong with this. Masturbtion is healthy, wonderful, and good for your soul. Forget facials and manicures, masturbation is the ultimate form of self-care.
There is nothing to feel guilty about. I’m positive that you’ll feel less inclined to send that indecipherable string of emojis to your ex once you’ve let off some steam.
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